I have a difficult time viewing polygamy in a positive light, but I think that it poses interesting and pertinent questions for modern societies such as the one of individual freedom and of societal interest. The Washington Post has a fascinating article on polygamy, which focuses on the attempts made to bring it in the mainstream. Money quote:
Bonnie, along with her husband, Nat, and his first wife and their three children, are members of the Apostolic United Brethren, which says it has 7,500 members across the West and in Mexico. Bonnie's family lives in a suburban subdivision containing about 50 houses -- all inhabited by members of the sect. Bonnie's family has been polygamous since the 1860s. Nat was raised in a monogamous household but converted to Mormonism and decided to become a fundamentalist and a polygamist.
Bonnie said that what attracted her to polygamy was the chance it gave her to bond with women as well as with her husband.
"I always had an inner feeling that I'd be a plural wife," she said. "I was very excited to join his family. I had a really good feeling with his first wife."
Nat said he needed to be convinced. Far from the stereotype of the patriarch, he appears bookish and perhaps a tad meek. "Usually the women tend to be the biggest advocates of this way of life and men enter it more timidly," he said. "If you are going to do it right, it's a huge responsibility."
The guardian has an equally fascinating article on Warren Jeffs, the spiritual leader of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints who is charged for statutory rape and shows us the derives of Polygamy. Money quote:
Polygamy as liberation - is it really time to rewrite the annals of feminism? Not at all, says Broadbend. Her upbringing and education, what little she had of it, was all about female subservience. Even before Jeffs came on the scene she was being taught her role in life: "Girls are put on Earth to obey the man who is superior. We are here to bear children for him and to do his bidding. You do what your man says, and you certainly do not question him. If I had stayed I would have had no say at all over my own life."
My biggest issue with polygamy is it reinforces or rather promotes the idea that women are possessions that can be collected and that a man can satisfy a high number of women. I would be less disturbed about polygamy if it offered the same choice to women as it did to men, which is the one to have many husbands. However, the point would remain the same. Are human beings possessions? Should we be allowed to treat each other as collectible items? I don't think that we are. It is for this reason that polygamy is in my view an abomination and contrary to the view that human beings are different from animals and shouldn't be objectify. It is easy to use polygamy to score cheap ideological and political points, but the issue isn't ideology, but human rights.