Sugary excerpt from Sally Thomas’s review of Diane West’s The Death of the Grown-up:
Take the parents whose idea of good, safe teenage fun is to hire a stripper to cover herself in whipped cream, so that their son and his football teammates can lick it off, or the mother who sues the school district to protest her daughter’s suspension, because official policies do not spell out explicitly that oral sex on the school bus is against the rules. Take “Cucumber Girl,” teenage star of a sex-education video intended for California tenth-graders, who “chirpily instruct[s] viewers, in modified Val-Gal-speak, on the proper way to don a condom,” using a cucumber as a demonstration model. Take the middle-age Batavia, New York, Rotarians posing nude for a fund-raising calendar. Take them all, please, back to Central Casting.
At least, that’s the tempting response. It’s tempting to argue, But most of us aren’t like that. After all, most of us aren’t. We don’t hire strippers to entertain our children. We don’t, as in another case West cites, hire out hotel suites to give our children a “safe” place to experiment with alcohol and drugs. Some of us go so far as to keep our children home—for the day, or for the next twelve years—to limit the influence of the Cucumber Girls, at least in our own families. As William Grimes of the New York Times points out, “In one case after another, the community reacts with outrage, or a judge throws the argument out of court. Common sense and local standards, it seems, do occasionally score a victory.”
It’s that occasionally, however, that’s telling, and scarily so. Why does “one case after another” come up in the first place? Why do “community standards” only “occasionally” prevail over absurdity? And what happens when the “community standards” themselves verge on the absurd?
[…]To give context to these contemporary events, West constructs a historical trajectory that arcs from the World War II–era entry of the word teenager into the popular lexicon, to a future of multicultural uncertainty. By her account, the rise of the student radical in the 1960—and the accompanying acquiescence of sycophantic college administrators and parents who laud destruction of property and the hurling of mindless obscenities as “acts of conscience”—begets, in an unbroken lineage, the Islamic terrorist threat of our own era, “The Real Culture War.”
[…] What, exactly, is everyone afraid of? Mainly, says West, they are afraid of defying the cultural narrative, also in development for the last thirty years or so, which asserts that no culture may claim to have advanced any further, or to have accrued any greater wisdom, than any other culture.
[…] On the geopolitical level, West claims, the same argument currently carries the day: Who are we to say that blowing people up is ‘gross?’ That’s their culture, whether they’re Islamists or Sinn Fein. In other words, when “community standards” go global, we’re the spring-break parents of the civilized world, and this does not bode well for civilization.
I have to admit that I am confused for I don’t get the point between Libertinism, the supposed death of the Grown-up, and of the West. Both Thomas and West are taking so many detours to avoid stating what they really mean that at the end of it, I am with my head spinning wondering what is their point and why they don’t have the guts to be politically incorrect to the end and state directly what they mean. To me, this real debate is really that too many people feel that the West is threatened by a bunch of elitists who reject the laws of nature, their past, and their culture because they want to be liked by the rest and because they refuse to give childish fantasies and to accept that not everything and everyone is equaled and more importantly that evil exists and must be combated. This debate takes me back to the second round of the French election. Sarkozy promised to bury the inheritance of May 68, which was responsible to the fact that French society was too permissive and too amoral. Tolerance for the intolerable had become the greatest virtue when the French needed to work more and to have a state, which behaved as the dad in a traditional family by not rewarding laziness, transgressions, and excesses. Sarkozy was thus promising to make France more traditional and more Western by returning it to its real natural values. All we need to understand that this type of grandiose statements about the West needing to be itself and to respect its values is about as authentic and noble a quest as Manifest Destiny is to examine what Sarkozy has to done so far to epitomize his own high moral aspirations. He has been such a libertine that the French are missing old presidents who may have been bad managers, but which were more demurred. The real issue is really one of identity not of values because what Thomas and West are really saying that the West is becoming like the Rest and that is a problem because the Rest can never be as good and as virtuous as the West no matter what how hard it tries. In others words, the world is populated with the right and the wrong kind of people and it is going to hell because the right kind of people are behaving badly by admiring the wrong kind of people and refusing to respect their rightness. That's the reason why the right kind of people should have more babies and should accept who they are.